Friendship.. from a friend...

Dear Reader.

Don’t forget this simple sayings that says “good readers will always be a good leaders”…… Take your time to read if for nothing just gain knowledge. I advised that you read this messaged to the end. May this message opens your eyes of understanding and give you a clear picture of what friend you should be and what kind of friend you should desired for your life.

There are all kinds of reasons why people befriend one another. The need for companionship is a basic motive. Or perhaps someone is slow in school, and tries to find an intelligent friend who can help. Or perhaps someone fears enemies, and looks for powerful friends who can offer protection. So many in our today’s world miss interpret what true friendship should be like, so based their heart of colors, race, age and language, height or sizes and some based their heart on just what they could get from some one……  this are all wrong though on building a true friendship.

Who is a true friend?? In my little way I can say a true friend is the one that the real you can reflect in him or her, in another words he or she knows your secret and keep them for you in the unity of good understanding. A person that will always be there for you and when you cry he or she can only cry along with you, he or she will be sock with tears but yet clean up your tears, in his or her character he or she is asking you to stop cry and let him or her do it for you. this is what I call true friend. So how to find this kind of friends? I in my own way I will say or advised that a man or a woman who is looking for a right friend must first be a true friend. How be taking off his mind from the benefit of friendship, and think on what he or she can offer as a true friend. He or she must not choose a friend on the bases of “colors, race, age and language, height or body sizes” he or she must not expect anything in return as a true friend. This is what I called the act and steps of a true friend.

You must believed that a friend is never a perfect being, it takes good understanding to build up a good friendship. If you ask me what is friendship I will in my own word answer this way, it is a “working process of two friend building a ship” so it is called friend-ship. In this process it takes two better understanding to stand under the building process. On this part many has failed as a result of their inability of going under the building process to standing their little differences. This part has nothing to do with  “colors, race, age and language, height or body sizes” it is a game of maturity. Who can play it?

It is just too true that friendship is a game, some days and good and same days are bad, many are disappointed in the game and some say I just want to be alone.

Dear reader I can assure you that you can never be all alone, there is a part of us which belongs to a friend, and even while you are alone that part of you makes feel so lonely and frustrating, in your head you just want to be alone but deep in your heart you want to still give it a try. That part of you will never be at peace until it finds the right and true friend.

What is the best way to attract true friend? First you must develop the at of been a true friend, this step will lead you to the right friend you dreamed to have for yourself, so you must start acting as a true friend and your acting character grow to ability and this ability has the creativity power to reproduce your act of true friendship into the right person that marches you.

You can never be a good person and have a bad person comes into your life, mmmmm! I guess some one will say this is a lie right? With his or her facts. EG: I am a good person and I never do bad to any body, I never break any ones heart, I never cheated in love and I never take part in doing evil. Sure all are right statement to your eyes.

NOW! Let me prove you wrong characters are seed planted and when it grows it turns to something else and come back to you. How do I mean? Search deep down your heart and you will find out in the history of your life, there are some good people who have come into your life and you throw them off you do to the following reasons, “colors, race, age and language, height or sizes” or reasons best known to you and that person gets hurt and wants away with tears in his or her heart, and nature pictured it and keep it as a reward of what you are going through today, so if you are holding to heart that some one hurts you what will you say to the ones you hurted?  Mmmmm thinking now right?

For me I will advised that lets us all start to be a good person and treat every one that comes our way with fairness and with a good heart in the spirit and heart of through friendship.

You can start it now and be the change that you want to see in the world of friendship.

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